Friday, 18 February 2022
Wednesday, 16 February 2022
INSIDE THICK FOREST.
Inside Thick Forest.
The truth about life is that we might not get all the things we need at once and even if we do, there could be other things that bother us.
Life is a problem solved based on our individual attributes and when it is done collectively, it is called team work. Everybody needs team work in order to succeed because no one is born to be isolated. Don't be in a haste to get ride of your spouse through divorcement because you don't know who you're going to meet next but no matter what happens, make sure that he or she is not beating you and if matter gets worse, get a lawyer！
Do not die in silence！Live is only lived once but do not do the wrong things either. A lot of people oppress their spouses because they feel that they have the upper hand in terms of who controls the family's wealth, age or even muscles. Those are not the criteria for showcasing power！No matter what happens, try to settle and do not be the reason why your home should be a living hell！
Wrong things like keeping late nights, keeping unwholesome associations and even being arrogant can cause problems in the family.
The purpose of marriage is not to be torn apart because if that is the reason, then there is no need coming together in the first place！Live well, love your neighbours, spread the love and be kind to your children.
The human nature is some how, at one time, you find husbands and wives dmiling and at another moent you find them quareling. Is that not confusing？Yes, it is， completely.
When you go into marriage, go in with the right mindset that it is for good and when things start going zigzag, remember God！He has the answer to every question but remember that He sometimes act through people including lawyers. So, do not ignore timely warnings！
Talking about God, it is true that He has the answers to any question that we can ask of Him including solutions to marital problems which can be found scriptural studies or even special guidance.
Little children grow up knowing their father and their mother to be called, 'Parents," introducing them to only one parent is nota good idea.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
Saturday, 12 February 2022
Friday, 11 February 2022
Always Do Good
Laziness is not good.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
Just be hopeful
An inspirational quote about how people see tomorrow.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
You Have Now
An inspirational quote about how people see time.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
As it is
A motivational quote on giving.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
Just Accept It
A motivational quote on speed.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
Thursday, 10 February 2022
Life in Jungle
Life in Jungle
Growing up, I had high opinions about marriage but as the news started flying here and there and rumours spread, I wondered if it was worth it but I am not speaking for everybody. Share you opinions with us in the comment box, it is worth doing.
Give yourself time to overcome somethings. It might not always be easy but it is achievable. Marriage is a good thing but with the way some prople are going into it and coming out at the same would make some minds doubt the above statement it is because it is the nucleus of the society！
Let's take things easy on ourselves. Not everybody is compatible with everybody but the right one can still br found if time is given to dilligent seeking.
Do not underestimate what patience can do but be careful not to be whiling away your time in the company of the wrong peron！
Move on as fast as you can because time waits for nobody. Watch every move and words because those are the things that make up a being but do not leave a suspicious life！
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
Editorial: The Battle Line is Drawn
Editorial: The Battle Line is Drawn
The actual purpose of living is to grow young. It may come as a surprise to some people but we know it to be through. To cross the rubicon is having to go beyond point after which there is no going back, no retreat and no giving up！
At some points in life, you wouldn't help but find yourself fighting off things you don't like, being at loggerheads with people and even dropping some habits that you may no longer want to have again. Whichever, it is good to know that crossing the rubicon also means not being able to return to an initial state.
When you choose to fight against poverty, it is as though you cannot be able to accomplish it but you know, it could be defeated so long as yo do not give up on the fight.
When you choose to stop being bad, it becomes a problem because a lot of people would be observing you to know is you will go back to your past life but if you put the right things in check, going back would be impossible and when you decide to stop following bad gang, people might see you as a weakling but your choice is your choice！
Accept critisms but not destructive ones. Learn to say the truth especially in the midst of people who value and start now to prepare for tomorrow because it holds a lot in store.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking up to say that you have tried.
TOP 10 BLOGGING MOTIVATIONS
If you are looking for something to motivate you into blogging, just keep your eyes on these:
1. Money
Don't just see blogging as a hobby. See it as a means to make money.
2. Strategy.
You cannot start blogging and end successfully if you are lazy because almost every aspect of it requires that you have a working strategy. Think about getting traffic (whether free, organic or paid), developing weblog contents or even outsourcing. It all requires strategy.
3. Plan
Plan your life, plan your blog.
4. Career.
Blogging can be a career if you take it serious.
5. People.
One way to reach people of like minds is through blogging. You can find them if you look in the right directions. In addition to this, you can as well find another set of people that would address you differently.
6. Consistency:
Have you heard about broken links? That is a term for something you might always need to go back and correct. Without consistency, you can't do this.
7. Determination:. No one likes working for nothing. If after working for several months and no cash comes in, some people might drop the idea of making money online through blogging and move on while some people would keep on trying. Only determination can bring about this.
8. Speed
If you want to learn how to be fast, go into blogging. Nobody can be faster than somebody who jumps onto his or her feet because an idea came across their minds!
9. Hope: Think of blogging as a long term goal and stick to it. You can rest at intervals but never give up!
10. Identity
Your blog is your identity. You can say one thing on it and do the opposite somewhere else. People know you by it. So, be good at it and develop expertise.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
Crucify Me: A Poem.
Crucify Me: A Poem.
Look into my eyes
And tell me that it is not true.
Tell me that you have left me and I would doubt it but crucify me for the wrongs yet I live.
For the things I said that I didn't do. Crucify me but remember that I am still alive to make amends.
But in the meantime, crucify me.
Tell me you can bear the burdens of a thousand years and I would know what to answer you but tell me it's impossible to see you again and I will leave myself in doubt.
Crucify me for the little things I failed to put in place.
For the vital role I played in making you feel somehow
And for the days I looked away from your face in panic.
Crucify me!
BORDERING ON TRUST.
Issues bordering on trust have left so many people homeless but it is not good because it can wreck havoc, set family members apart or bring problems.
1. Abortion.
This is as a result of not being ready for marriage but still insist that somebody should get pregnant for you! This leads to having a child out of wedlock and some people might think that aborting it might lead to them avoiding questionable looks from people in the society but this is absolutely out of place.
2. Paternity test
Also know as DNA is what people resort to when the question the moral stance of their spouses in a family setting. Because it is highly accurate, people depend on it to ascertain the actual father of a child.
3. Inheritance (or lack of it)
People are left to their own imaginations in a matter as this. When distrust creeps in, partners separate and might inherit anger for one another.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
TOP 20 BLOGGING JARGONS YOU SHOULD KNOW.
In this year 2022, if you want to start blogging in respect to the fact that it makes for an easy sharing of ideas, then there are some terminologies in blogging you should know and might have come across.
1. CMS: this stands for content management system. It is a robust package that allows you to manage all your contents including videos, images, texts and audio. A typical content management system can be free or paid. Examples are blogger or blogspot.com, WordPress, Drupal or Joomla!
2. Ad space: this is a space on your blog where people can place their adverts. It makes for easy monetization of blogs through AdSense or other means. You might wonder why I made sure this terminology is at the top, it is because everybody wants to make money!
3. FB: FB is the shortened form for Facebook. It would interest you to know that you can get more website visitors when you share your links on FB.
4. Traffic: this is a name given to the number of people that come to your blog per time.
5. Chanel: a means of sharing blog posts.
6. Media: everything that has to do with communicating with a large audience. You can add "mass," to it if you want to get a clearer view of it.
7. Monetization: the act of making money off your efforts. It can be done through AdSense, ezoic or adsterra.
8. Indoor: this is a term for people who always stay at home to work!
9. Voice: this a particular tone with which you communicate with your audience. It is particularly good when you want to be seen as an established Blogger.
9. Banner: a sample of ad on your blogging space.
10. Logo: what represents your brand.
11. Favicon: also stands for favourite icon. It is what you see on your browser as a tiny image when you visit a website.
12: URL: it stands for universal resource location. It is what tells your audience where your contents are located.
13. Contents: it is what makes up your blog. That is the videos, the posts and all that. Content is King is a very common saying among bloggers.
14. Domain: this is the name of your website or blog.
15. Subdomain: this is the name of a website that is not independent. Eg yourblog. Something. Com
16. Extension: what your domain ends with. Eg .com, .ng or .net.
17. Mod: someone who moderates a blog.
18. Amob: A type of monetization system.
19. Article: What you write on your blog.
20: Someone who visits your blog to submit an article for publication.
The list is inexhaustible but you can make research on your own.
In one way or the order, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
MY ADOLESCENCE STAGE
MY ADOLESCENCE STAGE
Growing up in Nigeria is a big motivational trend because not all people end up where they started because the wave of success can change things.
In live in a remove village with my parents and sometimes, one of my grand parents.
Whenever we go scouting for coconuts, she would made me climb up. I was young. So, I could not say no but later I realized that it was for our own good. She would tell me to climb up the tree because no one was going to do it for me and when I look around and I see no one coming, I would just muster courage.
In the process, I learnt the following. That you have to keep an eye on the goal in order to achieve it. That you have to take a break some times or rest and that you have to continue until you hit the mark.
Take it from me, an average coconut tree is several feet in height but I did climb it with the aid of determination knowing that I am also one of the beneficiaries of its proceeds when sold.
In the market, an average coconut can sell for N120 in Africa and I enjoyed doing the climbing and plucking the fruits which are later liberated from the chaff and sold but you know what? It was not always easy. Climbing has become a part of life for people who want to succeed, do not let any excuse hinder you!
Just so you know, I am from Africa, Nigeria precisely.
MAY WE KNOW YOU?
Some interview questions can be annoying at times. They have only seen or read almost everything about you and they will go ahead to ask such crazy question. Of course, you can know a person by his or her appearance. So, what is the need for such redicul
HOW TO CHANGE YOUR TOOTHBRUSH
You know, at times you have to reminded of something before you do it and this morning, I have decided to do the work of an alarm bell.
A toothbrush is something that is used to keep the mouth clean. It usually works with a substance called toothpaste. For a healthy set of teeth, do not joke with one.
Here is how to change your toothbrush for a better and a healthy dey of teeth and also to make your dentition strong and free from germs.
1. Accept it.
Nothing lasts forever. This world is temporal and nothing is worth dying for except the faith. I picked this topic because it exposes a lot. Do not be left behind but move forward with the right trends.
2. Observe.
Is it still fresh? If no then consider taking the next step!
3. Discard it and buy another.
You can even receive a new toothbrush as a gift. So, find a dustbin, thrust it in there and go your way. Never think that it is a bad idea to change your toothbrush from time to time.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
Learn, Unlearn and re-learn.
In the calendar of life, there is time for everything. People fear that what they've learnt might one day not be relevant. Update your library of words and remove the obsolette ones.
1. Learn.
This is the basic activity of life. Even for you to answer a call, you need to learn what your name is by hearing people say it to you often. Demonstration is a big tool of impact because it lets the mind understand what the mind is saying. To have success in life, you must learn to follow the right path.
2. Unlearn
The consequences of not doing this is that you might end of having knowledge that no longer works in the society. Ransack your brain and take away the odd ones. The benefit of doing this is that you will have more space to put in what should go in there！
3. Re-learn
After the act of unlearning, the next thing to do is to start learning all over again. By now you have more space because you have taken away the junk.
Learn good things.
How To Turn Down A Wrong Suggestion.
How To Turn Down A Wrong Suggestion.
In this life in which we live, you are going to come across people of different orientations. What this means is that there are going to be a mix！
A person from a humble home can meet with a person from an arrogant one and you know, characters are exchanged through conversations. A person who is not prepared to resist some bad stuffs is more likely to end up woefully. A person from a happy home can come in contact with a person from a broken home and guess what happens？Training starts immediately.
We learn from what we hear but that does not mean that you should let everything you hear have huge effects on you especially the bad ones.
The following is how to turn down a wrong suggestion.
1. Recognize that it is wrong.
2. Turn it down.
3. Do that polititely.
To recognize that something is wrong is to weigh the impacts. If they're abysmal, forget it. People make suggestions to you based on what they think you need.
Wednesday, 9 February 2022
DOWNLOAD NAIRA QUOTES
This is one of the means of keeping your dreams alive. Read what energizes you and share the same with others.
1. Problem has no expiry date until you give it one.
- Nzeakor Davis.
Contrary to what people have been saying that every problem has an expiry date, the writer comes here to infer that a problem can only end if you do something about it. No problem ends on its own including academic barrenness. If you have low grades and you expect them to improve on their own, it's not going to work. Until you put an expiry date to them by studying, they remain so.
2. The only language money understands is work.
- Nzeakor Davis.
To say otherwise is to be deceitful. The only place where you can witness that idleness is powerful is when it is found burying people's destinies. So, work.
3. A hand that is too lazy to work is most likely to be connected to a widely open mouth.
- Nzeakor Davis.
Do not be the reason why some people wouldn't want to come around you. If you can't work, don't eat too much.
In one way or the other, one day, you shall find yourself looking back to say that you have tried.
WORK WITH AWARENESS
Lack of awareness is the reason why some people have been stagnated in life. Not knowing what works for you is a problem as big as wanting to be like everybody else.
When you see a lawyer today, you admire and like to be like the Lawyer. You see a Fisherman today, the same thing applies and even Seamstress.
It is good to admire people and like what the do but it's bizarre to want to be like every other person else except who you should be. Do not limit yourself to fit into every opinion that people hold about you but know what works for you and work towards achieving more.
There is no person on this Earth that does not have a shortcoming but if you let your shortcomings to have a better part of you then you might find yourself doubting everything you must have done well before. Awareness in this regard means being exposed to the accurate information that you need in order to succeed and also using same. To be in possession of knowledge without using it is like to strangle power. The ability to become powerful dies when there is unwillingness to put information to use.
Simply put, information without the willingness to use it is as useless as not having it all. Do not be in the know and deny such a thing. Except it is required of you, do not go beyond limit.
But limits are meant to be broken. Just do it in a legal way. Nobody will stop you until you say, "Ok, I am done walking."
In the absence of that, you have the wheel to your life. So, just move!
COOKING OKRA SOUP
I have seen headlines of posts and even videos posted on Facebook which are meant to guide people on how best to prepare one the best Nigeria delicacies which is okro soup but I am not here to teach it.
The major thing I am concerned about is the process involved. Okra soup is one of the foods enjoyed by the Nigerian people and some other people around the world and it is prepared with oil, okra, fish, meat, water, seasoning and some other ingredients in a desired sequence which ensures that no step in the process of cooking is skipped.
Now, I am interested in discussing this because it teaches some lessons like:
1. Time management:
You don't just jump into the whole thing without first knowing how long it can take you. So, preparing is needed and time management is the key to getting things done as at when due.
2. Sequence.
It follows certain procedures. It is about time you learnt cooking so that you can be better than I am. Generally, you don't jump the process as there is time to put oil, time to add salt and time to add other things like seasoning and vegetables which could be pumpkin or bitter leaves.
So also it is in life, there is time for everything.
3. Ingredients.
Sit down. Think. Ask yourself, do you have all that is required to finish that building project, land that job or even go for more courses. In cooking okro soup in a typical Nigerian setting, you need to put down a list of what you are going to use for the cooking. Get them from the market and then get set to start cooking okro soup. Your tools should also be ready and your pot washed.
You see, cooking is what everybody should learn because it teaches life lessons that pertain to success, academics and professionalism.
Ladies and gentlemen, Children and the people in the world all over, enjoy!
British English Versus American English
British Versus American English
Oh！God save Nigeria. We are in between both. When I type, "Honour" onto my screen and the application that I am using to type the project underlines it as a mark of error, I feel embarrassed. I mean, it is also the same thing as Honor.
We are Nigerians！Right now here, we have our primary dialects and languages and English language is not our mother tongue but it has been made the official language of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. So, you see, we are trying at that. It is even good that they made English language our official language because it makes for easy transactions in doing business on the global stage. So, we can work, learn and earn.
I know that I am not the only one passing through this ordeal but it can be remedied because some people claim that it is better if we make use of the British version of English while writing in a competition, business or political arena because Nigeria was colonized by the Great Britain and some people also said that the best thing to do is to choose one version to use in each text. For example, if you choose American English, use it throughout so as to avoid missing things up.
In all, one thing can be learnt here. Something can be wrong in one place and yet right in another but let their be a balance. What you do and see as an easy job is what another person sees as a difficult one. Though there is nothing wrong with working to achieve one's goal in a sane setting but different people have different attitudes towards it. Some show seriousness, some do not.
Everybody is expected to work hard but those who found smart ways of doing things and being fast at that are not wrong, just don't be dubious！
Increase in Success
Every morning when you wake up from bed, the next that should into your mind is what to achieve. I believe there is nothing else we're are here for if not to make achievements.
Wait, if you don't achieve success, it it enemies that you,would like to achieve？No. Those are not good enough. If possible, reduce the number of enemies you have by making more friendships work but be careful who draws close to you！Keep careless people at bay or else you might have a woeful tale to tell but do not despise anyone.
Love is an ingredient for lively cooking, not not build your life outside of it because life might be filled with boredom.
There is nothing particularly good about being wicked but you know, some people might think otherwise. Hatred is not for you, love is.
To love somebody means to wish them success and also walk toward their actualization of it if you have the opportunity. Process is what produces results, do not ignore both. What this means is that you need both the process and the results to make things work though some people prefer to have results most of the time because that's what makes them to be joyous！
Seek knowledge in everything you do, it is the foundation for success. You cannot succeed in a field where you know nothing about. Going to the deepest part of the ocean to swim is to serve yourself as a meal to the whales if you don't know how to swim.
Think about a Professor in the university or college that doesn't know what he or she teaches and tell if that is not absurd. Know your trade well, do it and make money. That is how to succeed in life.
Some people leave their jobs to enrol into schools where they can gain higher knowledge and you think that they don't know what they are doing？They know. Knowledge is what paves way for success.
Who you know matters. Do not be a friend of rascals because sooner or later, you would be like them. I do not wish that for you be careful.
Before you go to bed, check yourself. If there are important things you failed to achieve, leave them for tomorrow.
Tomorrow is another opportunity with which to try！
CBN
CBN
In Nigeria, the apex institution in the world of banking is known as Central Bank of Nigeria which also abbreviated as CBN, simply put, it is the bankers bank.
The central bank of Nigeria has it's headquarters in Abuja and branch offices in most of the developed areas including Anambra where one of the former Governors of the central Bank of Nigeria contested and won the position of Anambra state Governor under the political platform of APGA which is an acronym for All Progressive Grand Alliance and the person is no other than Ex-CBN Governor, Prof. Charles Soludo but do you know that there are other central banks？Let me list them:
1. Central Bank of Knowledge
This is also abbreviated as CBK just as the Central Bank of Nigeria could be abbreviated as CBN. CBK can best be represented as book and you can buy it with Naira or on Amazon.
2. Central Bank of Wisdom.
When you hear the word wisdom, what comes to mind？Brain right？Yea.
- Soyinka Wole （Prof.）is wise.
- Scientist Albert Eisten is wise and
- Prof Chinua Achebe （of blessed memory）is/was wise. You are wise if you use your brain well. I have a friend whose name is Okechukwu Wisdom and I know, he's wise. That is all I can say for now.
I have other people too that I can mention but one thing to note is that anybody who uses his or her brain could be wise. Use your brain in areas that border around：
-academics
-finance
-family
-marriage and
-career.
In so doing, you would be that you came across this blog.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND
What goes around comes around is a common statement in the Nigerian setting that means a lot of things like:
1. Patience: No matter what happens, if you can wait, that thing you're looking for will come and meet you.
Though it is not always true, patience is a good virture and a very vital quality for anybody in a leadership position but where some mindsets are getting it wrong is in the area of thinking that sitting down with their arms folded and at the same time, whiling away their time is enough excuse to make what they need to come to them！No, at times, you just have to stand up and chase.
a. wake up every morning and chase your dreams until they come true.
b. stand up and chase away your obstacles. Do not let them come too close to you including laziness.
c. be agile enough to chase what belongs to you until you find it.
2. Determination: There is wisdom in that saying that has it that what goes around comes around. When you look at it, you find out that you just have to be determined to press on just to achieve your goal. What goes around comes around means that if you can be determined enough to wait and not give up, the result you seek would come but do not be idle while you are waiting.
3. Humility.
If there is anything else this saying teaches so well, it is humility. In fact, it is used mostly when other people try to show off in the presence of those who do not have what they have. For example, you can hear something like:
No problem. What goes around comes around, that car you're using to intimidate me today, I will buy my own tomorrow！
It sounds funny because the person speaking might not even have a car but it is just a matter of hope！
Scenerios Where This Kind of Talk Appears.
Something must lead to something. There can be a kind of discussion going on and you hear someone say, "What goes around comes around." just know that there is a reason behind those words and it can be any of the following.
-realization: Maybe the person speaking realized that what he or she was not able to buy, they now have it.
-breakup： people use this phrase often when they go through a major breakup in their relationships because they feel like what happened to another person has happened to them and might happen to another person and it just goes round.
-sharing: If you are in a meeting where any form of sharing practice is ongoing, just watch out: anybody that tries to be impatient, the person doing the sharing is more likely to say: calm down, yours will reach you. After all, what goes around comes around.
In conclusion, what goes around comes around. That money you need but you have not gotten might still come around.
CAN WE TALK？
Do you believe that opportunities can come around？
Let us hear from you！
